in Los Angeles, every guy has some kind of angle he’s playing in the dating scene.
Some guys play in a band and get all the rock groupies. Some guys are jacked and run game on Muscle Beach getting all the fitness chicks. And some guys get the party girls in the clubs by flashing lots of cash.
I didn’t fit into any of those groups. My strength isn't my strength (I mean muscles), or my height, or my Hollywood contacts (lack of). But when it comes to data analysis, testing and research...I blow everybody else out of the water!
I basically took OK Cupid apart piece-by-piece and put it back together again.
I was obsessive about it; I did A/B split testing on different profiles, I kept a word document on my desktop that listed all the opening messages I had tried and their reply percentage.
After that, they started asking me lots of questions. Not only that, my blog readers and clients started asking me all types of questions as well.
What if I'm not ripped enough to take shirtless selfies?
What’s the best opening message?
Why am I not getting any matches with hot girls?
All of this doesn't matter. If you read and apply what's in the book–it will work for you.
Anyway, as I said, I'm an engineer so I don't like doing the same task over and over and I don't like repeating myself. So...I decided to put all the answers in a book and be done with it.
I went back through all my old files, Excel spreadsheets, and Word documents. I re-read all of my notes, talked to all the dating bloggers I’d met through my own blog and interviewed every woman I had met through OKCupid. And, here’s what really taught me a lot…
I sat down with my female friends and watched them use OKCupid
I poured everything I knew into a book because I wanted other guys to achieve the same turnaround I had. I mean, let’s face it, the dating game only gets tougher every year.
Since it’s release, Cracking OKCupid has proven to be the most powerful collection of online dating tips ever created.
And I love all the emails I get from guys who have used my book to turn their dating life around. Like these: